I was ‘addressing’ an envelope the other day and it occurred to me that i never put salutations in front of the addressees’ names anymore. Yes, it may be a bit weird, but in the past, (during a time when all the envelopes i sent out were to be delivered only to close friends) I always put “Miss so-and-so” with their full names too.
I used to write vis snail mail to a classmate, Debbie. We saw each other in school everyday yet we still wrote to each other. and we got along better in our letters too. (primary school was a time when “I don’t friend you anymore!” was an ultimatum so commonplace) we exchanged drawings of cartoon characters, stickers and little gifts that were small or flat enough to slip past the postman’s suspicions. Anyhow, point is, i used to scribble her name in full attached with a ‘Miss’ in front even though she was a close friend… it made us feel more important receiving letters addressed to us in a business-like way.
it is funny then, that it has come one full circle, nowadays, i address my envelopes with the last names of people even when i hardly know them. it is all for the handmade business; receiving a letter addressed to your last name makes you feel like you are receiving a gift from a close friend. ironic?