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As my mum wrestles her way out of the supermarket check out, she tells me ‘it shouldn’t be this difficult to go green.’ and it is true.

At the supermarket, we take out our own produce bags for fruits but are promptly told off by the staff. We must use their plastic bags so they can identify the fruits being from the supermarket and we won’t walk off without paying for them. So the next grocery run, we go without our own bags, and place the fruits directly into the supermarket basket.

At the checkout it becomes a race. Card in hand, our own shopping bags in hand, my mum is going in overdrive. Quickly she tells the cashier she has her own bags before swift hands open new bags in autopilot. Then, she flashes her card to pay before fumbling to keep the card and transferring each fruit into her shopping bag so not to hold up the queue. It is a race against time. Sometimes the fruits ends up on the floor in all that haste.

At the food centre, it is another issue. We are one of those families who can’t stand using disposable plates and cutlery, especially for dining in. Sometimes, we consider bringing our own containers to buy food for dining in. But we mostly only go as far as to bring our own cutlery. Using our own containers while eating there is too out of the social norm, we feel paiseh (embarrassed) when we have to resort to that. Why is it us that feel embarrassed? Shouldn’t it be the other way around; shouldn’t one feel bad for using disposables instead? Most of the times we end up boycotting the stall instead. It is easier that way. But we miss out on the good food 😦

It really shouldn’t be this hard to go green.

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POPIN zoom

12 windows, each housing a friend, 7 cities, 5 countries, but all at once everyone is in my dining room. It is noisy at the start with the excited greetings. For most of us, we have not met in person for >5 years. It feels crazy to see everyone again. I had thought I would have a lot to say, yet when we meet I am a bit loss for words. It feels good just to see everyone again. There is a thrill to be connecting with each other in real time despite the geographical distance. Everyone is now on different paths. But behind this exchange of individual news, there is a knowing we have once been in the same place at the same time. That this collective thread is faint but still trying us together.

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